I received an email from Barb Steers yesterday telling me
that Rod had died in the early morning.
Although I knew he had declined recently, I was still struck by the news
of his death. The finality knocked
the air out of me for a while. Rod
was such a good man, a genuine gentleman.
He helped Jim so much with tennis, and they had great laughs
together. As you get old,
the loss of the people who lit up your life is harder to take than all the
physical and mental diminishments that must be endured.
This morning I got up at 6:30 to drive to the Kelowna
airport to pick up Caroline and Albert.
They came back from Hawaii because Caroline is not feeling well. Because it’s unclear what is wrong with
her and given the cost of all things medical in the USA, they prefer to have
the rest of the testing done in Canada.
I was happy to see that Caroline looks well. Although she doesn’t feel perfect yet, she has stopped losing
weight. So the 3 of us are back
rattling around the house, sleeping off and on, getting over jet lag,
reorganizing and eating at odd hours.
The weather continues grey and cool. I left early for the airport because there was talk on the
radio of low cloud and mist along the lake. I wanted to drive very carefully because I was using Al and
Caroline’s car. I seem to
have been more concerned about damaging their car than injuring myself. Tomorrow, we will find time to
drive up to ‘the Star’ and catch a little sun, I hope. Albert has to take their car into the
Honda dealership to have new winter tires put on it, and they still have to
repack for the drive back to Ottawa where they will experience part of the
winter they had hoped to escape in Hawaii. They will probably continue their winter in the islands in
January, by which time all should be settled with Caroline.
Yesterday, I got back to swimming at the Rec. Center
followed by coffee with Lusia. As
usual the sauna and steam bath were a highlight, but I missed Korea because the
cold shower at the Vernon Rec. Center is not as exhilarating as the freezing
waterfall and pool at the Blue Ocean jimjillbong. I remained overheated until we walked outside into the
bracing mists of October without our jackets on. That felt good.
This season, I’m going back to studying Spanish; Korean has beaten
me. Instead of a language
exchange, I’m going to help Lusia prepare for her citizenship test in the
spring.
A view of the inversion below from the sunny lunch stop on Pincushion
Another inversion seen from the sunny side, this time on Tuesday's hike up Rose Swanson.
Another shot of the inversion from Rose Swanson
Give Caroline a big hug for me! I hope that she feels better with each day. Mary Lou
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